I was dating guys who seemed like Pinterest versions of partners, without really caring about what made them tick.
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I went out with a whiskey distiller, a few investment bankers, a bunch of comedians, a carpenter who hung all of the shelves in my apartment, a tugboat captain (seriously), and spent an entire summer dating Australian men exclusively.
But I also was wasting my time with a lot of people who weren’t looking for what I was trying to find: a real connection that could grow.
It was then that I realised why I found these men so boring — we had nothing in common.
They were men who I wouldn’t have given a second glance at two years ago.
This past spring, I was exclusive without being serious with a guy named Jude*, who is now back with his ex-girlfriend (typical).