You may even subtly be pushing things in that direction. Your memories may haunt you, and make it difficult to find someone new.
It’s impossible to be that precise with feelings but as a general rule – wait six months before trying to form a friendship. In fact, unless you’re meeting each other with new romantic partners in tow, alcohol is a tremendous risk factor.
That means six months without phone calls, emails, and “how you doing? It’s six months where you are completely out of each other’s lives so that new relationships and new feelings can grow. You both need the judgment and restraint that comes with sobriety. Build a Different Dynamic Opposite sex friends need clear boundaries — especially if they are involved in romantic relationships with other people.
You can’t meet someone new because your old love is still in your life — hanging around being your pal and reminding you how great they are. Insist on a Substantial Cooling Off Period There is almost no way that a human being can go from being romantically attracted to someone to being just friends in a short period of time.
Emotions aren’t switches that get flipped on and off.
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